Tuesday, March 10, 2026

A Kick In The Butt

 In my last post I was saying that I had been down in the dumps. It appears that all I needed was a 'boost of spirit' and suggestions from my son to turn all that mess around. 


He's a man of few words (except when he is talking about sailing. ha) and what he says has thought behind it, sometimes long, long moments of thought, or days even. But, I can trust him, I depend on him for guidance and support and he never lets me down. 

So, I'm telling him about my dumps and ask if he has any suggestions on how to remedy that. He says, 'pull out that manuscript you stowed away and finish that book!'  Well, that was direct. I know the children want me to finish it so I'll give it another try.

'And' he added, 'you need to study up on perspective. I notice that some of your paintings looks 2 dimensional and your lines are off.'  So, I laughingly asked him when he became an artist critic? He does beautiful pen and ink drawings so he knows what he's talking about.


I think this is the painting that threw him over the edge. Yep, perspective way off there!

Well, my dumps were gone. I have purpose. No more lying around like a slug. 

I watched a video on YouTube about perspective. I need some real practice in that department but I'll improve, I promise.

The manuscript still hasn't been dragged out but it will be. I had some loose ends to tie up for I tackled that.

In the meantime, I started learning sailing jargon so I can better understand my son when he drones on and on about his boat. It will be good to know what he's talking about! He took me for a sail back last year and that was a very special time. 


Sometimes we just need a 'kick in the butt' to jerk us back into focus. 

14 comments:

  1. Nothing beats a good kick in the butt. I LOVE that you're going to bring the words back out to work on them. And, and, and, I love that you're also going to learn about sailing and the words that go with. Wonderful idea. Happy Learning. Cheers, Ivy.

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  2. Well, good for your son - sounds like good advice all around!

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  3. Your straight talking son has some good suggestions. I hope you get to sail again real soon. Yes on the writing!

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  4. Your son is very wise. I'm sure he gets it from his mother! Good luck with the sailing jargon. Can't wait to hear how the book goes. Hope you finish it. My grandmother wrote a book and it is very precious to me.

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  5. What a blessing to have a son that loves you enough to give you such good advice! You can tell he loves you very much.

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  6. I like the colors you used in that painting but he's right about perspective.

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  7. I'm so glad that you son's advice brightened your day and got you out of the dumps:) However, I would buy that painting if I saw it at a craft show. I really love it but I'm definitely awful at critiquing any kind of art. Wouldn't it be funny if the next time you saw your son, you surprised him with your knowledgeable statements or questions on sailing. Ha!

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  8. I think you should write a book about YOU! You are so inspiring, talented, and intelligent. You have so much to share! Aren't sons wonderful??? Hugs, my friend.

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  9. What a lovely son, and your painting may lack perspective but its still really pretty!

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  10. What a wise son you have! Nice that he knows you so well that he can tell you what you need to do to move out of the doldrums. About your painting that lacks perspective (??) if I could paint like that I'd be over the moon!!

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  11. Beautiful photos and lovely sketch.
    How wonderful that your son is able to help you see a different perspective.

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  12. Glad you are feeling better after that resident incident and wise words and advice from your son. Good luck with the perspective issues and writing.

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